We will never find healing by focusing on our hurts. The more we think upon the pain that others have caused us, the deeper our wounds dig in and spread out. Healing comes when we lay our hurts at the feet of Jesus and focus on Him, thinking upon Him, choosing Him above our afflictions. When we allow our afflictions to consume us, they become an idol and bump God into second place. And there is no greater danger to any soul than to allow anything to occupy 1st place but God.
As someone who knows this struggle, I know firsthand how easy it is to fall into this pit. So I encourage anyone that may need it, as Jesus has encouraged me, to turn your eyes and your heart and your thoughts upon Him, "the Sun of righteousness *who arose* with healing in His wings" (Malachi 4:2)
